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The story of punk rock singer Laura Jane Grace of Against Me! who came out as a woman in 2012, and other members of the trans community whose experiences are woefully underrepresented and misunderstood in the media.

Laura Jane Grace always felt like an outsider in the suburb where she grew up. In the punk scene she found a home, but Laura was buckling under the pressure of being someone she wasn't.

Being a teenager is difficult. Add gender dysphoria to the mix and it can be nearly unbearable. Laura Jane Grace and others discuss how they turned to drugs and alcohol as ways to cope.

Laura Jane Grace compares how she first identified as transgender with the experiences of others- and how popular culture's portrayal of trans people at the time influenced that discovery.

At one point, the loneliness, frustration, and despair proved too great for Laura Jane. She reveals she is among one of the many with gender dysphoria who attempted suicide.

The only thing possibly more difficult than coming to terms with being transgender is telling someone else.

It all gets real with the decision to go forward with gender reassignment. But Laura discovered that the physical changes of transitioning are just the beginning.

From friends to complete strangers, Laura and others have experienced sexism, resentment, and threats of violence as they continue their journey.

As Laura transitioned, so did her relationships with others. Members of the transgender community and Laura discuss how family, friendships and dating dynamics can change over time.

There are a lot of challenges that come with the transition process, but one of the hardest can be explaining it to your kids.

As society becomes more and more accepting of trans people, Laura and others are becoming more and more accepting of themselves, and hopeful for the future.